When young men feel invisible, powerless, or rejected, that pain doesn’t vanis, it looks for a place to go.
And online, there’s a ready-made world waiting to catch it.
It’s called the manosphere.
It speaks to their pain… then turns it against the world.
It tells them they’ve been fooled.
That vulnerability is weakness.
That women are the enemy.
That anger is strength.
And when they believe it?
They don’t just feel seen, they feel superior.
Not healed, but hardened.
Not free, but armed.
That’s how real pain gets re-purposed into hate.
But here’s the thing—pain can be re-purposed another way.
Into growth.
Into truth.
Into something strong and human.
🎙️ In Episode 8 of Allied We Can Cross the Aisle, I talk with 28-year-old Raisul about what it’s like to be part of the generation caught in this battle, and how we can show up before the internet does.
This isn’t just a conversation about YouTube or algorithms. It’s about who we’re becoming, and who we’re allowing our sons to become.
Pain is inevitable.
But what we do with it?
That’s still a choice.
🎧 Watch Episode 8: Red-Pilled and Radicalized.
Let’s teach young men how to feel without falling, and how to rise without destroying.
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